Do you, do you know, one of the things that, um. Creates difficulties for
fathers stepping up and, and, uh, really leading the way God wants them to do?
Up it's this little thing called sports. And, and John gets up here. I think he
begins, this time of the year, he begins like every message talking about some
college football team. OK. How many love college football? Great. There's 6 of
you here. And I'm not one of them. It is a college football messing up young
dads. You know what it is? It's T-ball. Yeah, it's T-ball. It, it's like, it's,
it's soccer. It's volleyball. We have to help our son, who has 3 young kids,
because they all, 5 and 6 and 11 years old, they all go in different directions.
And we literally have gone to a volleyball game one day, the same day, gone to a
softball game, and the same day had to get a child to, uh, gymnastics. It's just
constant, isn't it? And, and so you're running all over the place. Here's a
picture of my granddaughter last year. Yeah, isn't that cute? I, I thought you
would do that. She, she says, I love the uniform of the catcher. I go, it's the
equipment, it's not the uniform. Most of the time she wasn't the catcher. Most
of the time, she was out in the field. And, and I had, had to tell her, I had to
explain to her, the reason they gave you that uniform and the reason they put a
glove on your hand is to get in front of the ball and stop the ball. Not a
chance. That is, that isn't even crossing my mind. No, I'm out here to play in
the dirt. I'm out here to be a ballerina. I, I'm out here to socialize with
anybody who's close enough to hear me. But I am not getting in front of a ball.
I, I, I thought about it. She, she got in front of a ball one time and, and the
softball that they use when she's 5 years old is soft. So the batter got up
there, hit it off the tee, drilled it right back, hit her right in the chest.
She stopped the ball. You pick it up and throw it to first. No, I'm leaving. I'm
out of here. You're going to hit me. I'm leaving. It didn't even cross her mind.
That she was, she was supposed to stop the ball and throw the ball and get the
player out, not even there. I use that as an illustration in our message and
we're gonna talk about it a little more because I think her behavior. resembles
many who call themselves Christians. That God calls us to be in the game and he
has a purpose for us, and we're going, don't want to play that game. I want the
uniform. I want the uniform. And I, and I definitely want to go to the party at
the end of the season. No, not interested in stopping the ball. And so John is
in the middle of a series on the Sermon on the Mount, and he calls it, what if
Jesus is right? How many of us, when you hear the words of Jesus, think, you
know what, Jesus is right. OK. A lot more hands than for college football. Um,
But here's the deal, if Jesus is right, and we're going to go through the Sermon
on the Mount, he says some pretty radical things. And, and, and many of us don't
want to hear those radical things. Just tell us, just tell us and we'll sing
Jesus Loves Me, a bunch of times. Just tell me that. But that's not what Jesus
does. Jesus comes and he shares a message with us and so, uh, John has been
talking about the fact that there, there are these case studies in, in the
Sermon on the Mount. Jesus is doing the Sermon on the Mount and he goes through
these case studies one after the other. Last week he touched on. Four of them.
And this week I'm going to touch on the last 2 of these case studies. And he
said that the, the, the series with the emphasis of these case studies was, is
that we have to stop asking where the line is. And we need to start beginning
to, to ask what does love require. So, the two case studies that I'm doing,
really, I think the, the question that We, we're gonna answer is, do I have to
be fair? How many of us think it's good to be fair? Yeah, OK, that seems
logical. So do I have to be fair? And, and Jesus is going to answer that for us.
Um, when, when we think about the 4K studies that John just did for us, um, he,
he talked about murder because there were a bunch of people, and I really
believe that Jesus is giving this message. And he's hearing people talk. He's
hearing people ask some questions, and I always encourage people, if you're
going to study the Bible, if you want to know what a passage means, you need to
look on the at the beginning of the passage just before that passage begins, and
you need to look at the end. You need to look at the context. So what is the
context of these six case studies that we're talking about? What are the
bookends? Of um this and, and so one of the bookends is just before he teaches
about this, he says, you are the salt of the earth, not you should be, not you
could be, not it would be nice if you were, you are the salt of the earth. What
does salt do? Salt provides flavor and it's a preservative. That's who you are.
And, and then he says, he follows it with bookend number 2 on the other end. He
says, be perfect. As your Heavenly Father is perfect. Isn't it really too bad?
This, this happens occasionally in the Bible, um, That Jesus or Paul, they They
just aren't very bright people. Hopefully that's bothering you when I say that.
But they, they clearly didn't say what they really meant because Jesus couldn't
possibly have meant be perfect as your Heavenly Father is perfect. He really
meant just give it a good try. Uh Is that what he meant? No, I think he meant Be
perfect as as your Heavenly Father is perfect, and he said over here, be salt.
And be light. And then to put it into context, he's going to be going one after
the other through these 666 things, 6 case studies that these people are going,
well, here's what the law says. And so at the beginning of that, he says this, I
didn't come to get rid of any of what the prophets and the law say. In fact, If
you write it out and you see that little dot there, I don't even want that to
go. You see where they crossed the T, not even the crossing of a T. Everything
has to be fulfilled and we're going, no, no, no, no, no, no. I grew, I grew up
in church. They're just We don't have to do this, this stuff anymore. No, that's
not what Jesus said. Jesus said, no. I'm not, I'm not ending that. In, in fact,
um, a rabbi had a, a list of laws that they had their disciples follow. Some of
them, um, had like 600 and some laws. In fact, in one, article I was reading. It
says, um, In a rabbinic teaching, a yoke also described the commitment to a
particular way of life, a teacher's set of teachings, or the responsibility of
obeying the Torah. You get the picture. So a yoke. Do do you remember Jesus
saying, My yoke is easy? Yeah. What does that mean? It means it's really super
easy to be a Christian. That No, It means his yoke, his list of rules is really
easy to remember. Because he says, I only have 2. These guys. have 600. I've got
2. And what are the two He says this in Matthew 22, Jesus replied, Love the Lord
your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This
is the first and greatest commandment. The second is like it, love your neighbor
as yourself. All the law and prophets hang on these two commandments. You got
it? They go, you know, the others have all of these commandments. I got 2. Just
love God with everything that is in you. Everything that is in you. And then
love your neighbor as you love yourself. That's it. My yoke is easy. You'll
walk. This group will walk out of here today. And this afternoon, if somebody
said to you, what is Jesus' yoke, you'd be able to go love God with everything
that's in you and love your neighbor as yourself. You'd know it. You, you
memorized Jesus' yoke. Isn't that incredible? And, and so we come to this 5th
case study. Matthew 5:28, and the law says, here's what the law says. The law
says, be fair. We like fair. My, my wife and I were watching our grandchildren
yesterday. I can't tell you the number of times one said to the other, that's
not fair. We love fair. We learn it really young. And it doesn't change. You're
sitting at work and you have an employee come and the employee says to you,
Well, you know what, what you're asking me to do isn't fair. Yeah, you're right.
The number of times our kids came to my wife and said, Well, that, that's not
fair. And my wife says, Yeah, I know. Well, that's not the right answer. The
right answer is, oh, OK, I'll be fair. The law says be fair. Here's what it
says. It says, uh, you have heard that it was said eye for eye and tooth for
tooth. That comes from the Book of Leviticus. But here's what the law says. If
anyone injures his neighbor, whatever he has done must be done to him, fracture
for fracture, eye for eye, tooth for tooth, as he has injured the other, so he
is to be injured. Imagine. Imagine. We, we have a fellow here. I'm not going to
pick on him or have him stand up, but he was playing football and someone hit
him and his kneecap that's supposed to usually be on the front went in another
direction. OK, I hurt thinking about it. Can you imagine, imagine mom and dad, a
mom and dad are sitting at home and there's a knock on the door, and it's the
father of the football player and says, Yeah, I'm here to wreck your son's knee.
What do you mean? Well, he wrecked my son's, I'm wrecking his. You'd go, that's
a little weird, but that's what it says. An eye for an eye and a tooth for a
tooth, a fracture for a fracture, an injury for an injury. But you need to
understand that that was in a biblical day when revenge was the way you handled
problems. You broke my son's leg. I'm cutting off both your son's legs. You
knocked my tooth out, I'm cutting your head off. You burnt down my chicken coop,
I'm burning down your house. And, and it was always they increased the pain.
They increased the revenge. And so when God said an eye for an eye and a tooth
for a tooth, that was radical. Whoa, whoa, you mean we're just gonna be fair? I
don't, I'm not looking for fair. But Jesus says, we're going to change it.
Remember how we began with the bookends. The bookends are, you are salt, you are
light. If you're salt, can you not be salt? Have you ever gone to your salt
shaker and put it out, tasted it, and go, oh, it's just not salty anymore? No,
guess what? Salt is salt. And light You need to light a candle. I was in here
yesterday and, and all the lights were out. It was completely black except for
these uh exit sign lights. And after a little while my eyes adjusted and those
little lights provided enough light that I could walk around this room. Light
gives light. It can't. Jesus said, How ridiculous would it be if you lit a
candle for light and then put a bushel basket over it. What a dumb thing to do.
You are the light of the world. And be perfect as your heavenly Father is
perfect. Reflect your Father. Reflect what he does. And so if you are people of
the kingdom and You recognize that you're salt and your light and you reflect
the Father, then you're not looking to be fair. You're, you're not expecting to
be fair. Here's what Jesus says. Jesus replied, Love the Lord your God with no,
Jesus said, But I tell you, do not resist an evil person. If someone strikes you
on the right cheek, turn to him also, the other, and if someone wants to sue you
for your tunic, let him have your cloak as well. If someone forces you to go one
mile, go with him 2 miles. Give to the one who asks you and do not turn away
from the one who wants to borrow from you. What's Jesus saying? Some of us are
sitting here going, if I lived like that, they would walk on me at work. My
husband or my wife would dump all over me if I acted like that. So I'm just
trying to be fair. And Jesus says, fair is no longer the standard. Instead, the
standard is what? The standard is, did I show love? Can, can we do that? Can we
be people who are salt and light? And reflect our father. Because that's the new
standard. That's the standard Jesus brought in. He didn't lower the bar. And,
and so often we think that, that Jesus lowered the bar. Oh, no, no, all Jesus
said, it was all he said. He, he, he said, just say this prayer and get wet and
we're all good to go. Doesn't seem like that's what he said. He said, be salt,
be light, be perfect. Because that's what your Heavenly Father is asking you to
do. And going back to the illustration of my granddaughter. You know, there's
some here who are in this room, and I, I know you. I know you really well, and
you so desperately want to be salt and light. I'm convinced that every morning.
You pray, Lord, today, today, let me be light to someone. Today, let me reflect,
you God. There's others who are in this room who are saying, I just feel like
that's what God wants and, and I'm giving up my effort. I blow it and I hate
when I blow it. You know, my granddaughter's playing her 2nd year now. And she
tries to get in front of the ball and sometimes she stops it and sometimes she
misses and she feels bad when she misses. And there's some of us who are like
that right now. We're trying. I'm, I want to be the light. I know that's what
Jesus Christ expects. I know that that's what Jesus Christ laid out for me and
said, Here's what I want for you. I want to reflect my Father. And, and I so
desperately. With and working at that and trying, and I need you to know that
God, God loves you so much. He loves you and he loves maturing. He loves growth.
But there's another group here, and you know who you are, who will go. I'm not
even trying that. I have no interest. And going to work tomorrow and being
delight. I have no interest. In walking into that office and reflecting God.
That's not what I'm doing. I am trying to get ahead financially. I am trying to
climb that ladder. And, and I know if I'm gonna climb that ladder, there's
things I have to do that are not God honoring. But I'm gonna do what it takes to
climb that ladder. There's those of you who have been in a bad relationship.
And, and you go, no, you have no idea how my ex treats me. And there isn't a
chance that my new standard is going to be, can I be the light to that person?
Can I be the salt? Can I reflect my father to them? That ain't happening. Yeah,
I want to be called a Christian. Yeah, I wanna, I wanna go to the party at the
end. But there isn't a chance in the world I want to live like that today. And,
and my challenge is to each group, for those of you who are being faithful,
being the light and the salt and reflecting your father. My goal is be an
encouragement. I want you to be encouraged, but I also want you to encourage
that person who is saying, I'm trying, but I'm, I'm stumbling a little bit. Come
alongside them, be an encouragement and a support and help them. And then for
those who say, I don't even want to get in the game, I, I wanna encourage you to
do something that I don't know if anybody's ever encouraged you to do. Be
careful calling, calling yourself a follower of Christ. Be careful. You know,
Jesus says in the last days there's going to be people who come to him and say,
Lord, Lord, and he's going to look at them and say, don't have a clue who you
are. You never wanted to be the light. You never wanted to be the salt. You had
no desire to reflect me in your family, in your workplace, in anywhere else. I
don't know you. And so I don't want to stand up here and tell you that if
you're, you're in that category, don't worry, God loves everybody. Because Jesus
says the standard is different for those who follow Him. He says that's the
standard. People of the light, people who are salt and light respond
differently. Here's the second one that it says. He says The law says only love
what you value. Jesus, Jesus says this in Matthew 5:43. You have heard it said,
love your neighbor and hate your enemy. Some of us are going Sounds pretty good.
Yeah. Love those who are my neighbors, who are close to me, who are in my inner
circle, but those outside of it, I don't have to love. You know that guy I work
with, who is an absolute pain. Uh, that person who does everything that seems to
be counterintuitive, I don't have to love them. That, that spouse who, who
mistreated me, cheated on me, did all kinds of things to me. I, you, Dan, Maybe
I have to be fair, but I don't have to love them. And Jesus comes And he says,
the standard is different from my followers. He, he doesn't say it without
compassion. You know, there's some of you who are going, you know, Dan, you
don't know my in-laws. My in-laws are trying to destroy my family. It's trying
to divide. Me with my spouse. They're the enemy, Dan. And here, here's what
Jesus says. Jesus said, but I tell you. Love your enemies and pray for those who
persecute you that you may be sons or children of your Father in heaven. Why
would we show love to people who are trying to destroy us, destroy our business,
destroy our neighborhood, des destroy our, our culture. Destroy my family. Why,
why would I be called to love them? That doesn't make any sense, Dan. Jesus
explains it. He says He says, God is generous. With his natural resources, and
he gives an illustration. He causes his son to rise on the evil and the good.
And sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. You know, last week it
rained. A lot. Uh, did anybody notice how it wasn't raining on that neighbor's
yard who's such a jerk that God just sort of protected, you know, you got the
rain for your plants, but you looked over there and went. Or when the sun came
up that your neighbor didn't get any of the sun. Oh, you didn't see that? No,
see, Jesus is saying God is generous with his natural resources, and we ought to
be. Generous with the natural resource that we have as followers of Christ, and
what is that natural resource? What We're gonna try that again. And what is that
natural resource? Love That natural resources of love. And so Jesus is saying,
here's what I want you to do. That person that you're describing as an enemy. I
want you to love them. That, that person that you're describing as, man, a, a
destroyer for you, I want you to start praying for them. That neighbor who is
ruining the neighborhood, I want you to start praying for them. That, that ex
who is wrecking your life, I want you to start praying for them. And, and not
the prayer I heard one guy pray. Which was, Lord, change their heart or stop it.
Not the prayer Jesus is advocating. Jesus is saying, I want you. To love them,
pray for them. That's a challenge, and I know you're sitting here and going,
Dan, you don't know the situation I'm in. You don't know the way these people
have treated me. And Jesus would say, you're not going to believe it. They might
crucify you. And I still loved them. And you are followers of mine. And so I
want you in the middle of that situation to reflect my father. I want you to be
salt and light. How is the world ever going to come to know Jesus Christ? Unless
we are salt and light. People who are salt and light respond differently. Jesus
says, if you, if you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Not even
the tax, don't even the tax collectors do that. And if you greet only your
brothers, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that. B
Perfect. Even as your Heavenly Father is perfect. So our big idea today is that
we stop asking the question, where is the line? And, and we started asking the
question again, what does love require in that situation? And friends, it, I, I
really want to encourage you. This is like on a regular basis. This is on a
regular basis. There, there are things, I, I wish that I could tell you that I
stand here. I could just follow, follow me. I'll show you how to do it. I, I
blow it so many times. I blow it so often. But when we put it into our head that
that's what God wants. God wants me to be salt and He wants me to light and He
wants me to reflect, and all of a sudden I put that in and that becomes a
trigger in my head. And so I ask myself, when, when the temper is temperature is
rising and, and I'm just thinking that my wife is just kind of this is, I go,
it's time to be salt and light, Dan. When my grandkids are arguing about who
gets the bigger apple. It says it's time to be the salt and light man. With,
with the woman who I was driving down the street last Thanksgiving. And she ran
into my car. And I said, OK, do you know what, let's, we'll try to avoid the
insurance company so it doesn't go on your record. And it's now Thanksgiving and
Christmas. So after Christmas, we'll settle this, OK? And, and she says, OK. And
I said, all I need you to do is just text me. That you acknowledge that you ran
into me and then we'll figure out the cheapest way to do this. Um, we, we had a
couple of texts and then she stopped answering and this week as I'm doing a
message I'm going my goal is not. To get something out of her, my goal was to be
salt and light. So how do I text her one last message and said, I traded in the
car, um, it no longer can be fixed because I don't have it, so don't worry about
it. I don't want you to worry about that anymore. And, and God bless you. Oh,
wasn't that heroic of Dan? I can't tell you how long it took me to type that
thing. But God calls us to be salt and light and reflect our fathers. Does that
make sense? Here's what, here's what I'm gonna ask you to do evaluate. What one
of those three groups you're in? Are you, are you a person who every morning you
say, God, I just wanna be salt today. I wanna be light. I wanna reflect you in
every situation. Or are you the person who says, do you know what, I'm
struggling. I don't always want to do that. In fact, most of the time I don't,
and I, but I feel guilty about it and I want to get there. I want to move
forward. Or are you that person who says, I know what God's requirements are,
and I have no desire to follow them. I don't want that. I'm not going to ask
anybody to elbow the person next to you and tell them what their number is. I'm
gonna ask you, just think about it. Where are you at? Which one of those
categories do you fit in? And do you want to be in the place where you say,
Lord, I want you. To be in control of my life. I want to follow your standards,
not my standards. I'm done looking for fair. I want to be the person who shows
love even to those who aren't showing love back to me. So if you just bow your
heads and close your eyes, and before we take communion, just listen to the
words of this song, but more importantly, listen to God speaking to you. Is he
saying something to you right now? And telling you, I want you. To be salt I
want you to be light I want you to reflect your father. Father, I, I thank you
for this group of people right now. I thank you that they have been attentive to
your word, and I pray, Lord. That each of us would take it serious and we would
recognize where we are. Whether we are people who want you and are living for
you as our light, those of you who are struggling, living for that, but that's
what we want are those who, I pray, Lord, that each one of us would take a step
right now closer to the light so that we can reflect you. Thank you, Jesus. It's
in your name that we pray. Amen.