Good morning church family, both here in the room and watching along with us
online. You know, I, I am not so much a runner. I love sports and I love
competition. I, I don't necessarily love to run, but I read recently that for
those that do like to run and those who take part in marathons and a marathon is
a little over 26 miles. That statistically speaking, the most common place where
runners give up is known as the 20th mile in the 20th mile. And, and the reason
for that they say is because those that hit the 20th mile, their body starts to
break down mentally, they start to break down and they really, it's sometimes
called is hitting the wall and they're too far removed from the beginning, but
they're not close enough yet to the finish. And so they can't take it and they
give up. I believe all of us have a certain level or a certain situation that
we're in that really equates to the 20th mile that maybe you've been working
hard all semester. Right. And you're ready for the break, maybe it's a job or a
project that you've been pushing through or a goal that you have or a
relationship that you've been working on and, and you feel somewhere in the
middle and you feel physically broken down, you feel mentally broken down, maybe
emotionally broken down, but you're too far from the beginning and you, you
can't quite yet see the end. And so he hit the wall. Well, today I want to
encourage you and talk about what do we do when we hit the 20th mile. Our
message this morning is entitled, don't give up, don't give up. Go ahead and
turn your neighbor and just say, don't give up and do your other neighbors say,
ah, you should call it quits. No, I'm just kidding. Don't do that part. Uh The
reason we are talking about not giving up is because this is exactly what Paul
did as he finishes his letter to the Galatians. This week is the final week in
our series called Firm Foundation where we're talking about what Paul wrote to
the early church and the early house churches there in and around the area of
Galatia 2000 years ago. And he gets to the end where really all letter, he's
been talking about the power of grace and the gospel and freedom found in Jesus.
And he talks about how we can enjoy that freedom through the power of the Holy
Spirit. And he gets really practical at the end and encourages believers not to
give up and really the key, what we're gonna talk about today, one of the keys
to finishing well, finishing your marathon, finishing your race, finishing the
task that God has laid before you is to surround yourself with strong Christian
community. And that's what we have here. That's what we're trying to do here.
And that's why I encourage you to recognize in your life. And so if you're
taking notes, I want you to write this down, that Christian community helps you
grow in grit and goodness. Christian community helps you grow in grit and
goodness. And it's Christian community because really what we're talking about
here is at the end of the day who gives you the perseverance is God. And so
there is community places found throughout our world. And what I, what I wanna
encourage you with and, and really urge you to understand is that your desire
for community around the world and in different sectors of life, sports
interests, work, whatever whatever may have you. That's really a sign that your
soul is longing for Christian community, that faith and family go together. And
so how this is gonna break down is that when Paul is writing this last chapter,
the first five verses really teach us about what does it mean to have grit? And
then the next five verses teach us what does it mean to pursue goodness? Because
with Christian community, by your side, you can see both of these things come
into play. And so let's open up our Bibles to Galatians chapter six. And if you
don't have a Bible, uh we invite you to take one out of our Bible box that we
have out in the lobby. And then we also have some at our hospitality table. If
you're watching online, you don't have a Bible. Let us know, fill out that next
step form and we'd love to send you one. But here's where Paul begins the last
chapter of his letter. He says, brothers, if anyone is caught in any
transgression, you who are spiritual should restore him in the spirit of
gentleness to keep watching yourself, lest you two be tempted. I love the spirit
of this because what he's talking about here is the power to restore someone
who's fallen. That's not this judgmental. Aha. I got you kind of thing, but
rather it's to lift the brother or sister up who's fallen. So not like caught
red handed like ha ha I'm better than you. But rather I see that you've fallen
and that I'm here to restore you. That word restore is actually the same word
that describes fishermen, mending nets. And so when somebody falls down, you can
pick them back up. Now. Verse two, we, it continues on, it says bear one
another's burdens and so fulfill the law of Christ. Mhm. My apologies here. It's
been a little bit of an interesting week. No worries negative around the board
for those that are wondering, OK, multiple tests, there are negative. We say I'm
not on my eight game today. But uh we see here to bear one another's burdens and
that word burden is really this heavy weight that you can't lift on your own
and, and to surround someone to lift something that someone on their own cannot
carry. And this is important because it uses a different word a few verses
later. But I want you to see here that it says to fulfill the law of Christ. And
what is the law of Christ? Because earlier in the book, he talks about faith is
more important than law. Well, in this case, he's referring to the law of Christ
or really the lesson of Christ, which is known as the great commandment, to love
the Lord, your God with all your heart, soul, mind and strength and to love
others, not only as you would, but as Jesus did that when you love people, it's
showing that you have an understanding of the gospel. It's one of the best
things you can do is to look to lift the burdens for the people who are hurting.
And so sin is really an action that someone is struggling with. But then this
burden is usually something or a storm or circumstances somebody is carrying
right and we can go alongside them and carry that with them. Verse three for if
anyone thinks that he is something when he is nothing, he deceives himself. And
now I love this because he understands what is possible. So if you're the person
to restore someone who's sinning and you're the person that carries someone's
burden, it would be easy for you to feel prideful or puffed up. But the goal of
this is not so that you can feel better about yourself. The goal is that we can
lift and carry each other's burdens and support one another. So the end result
of that, the end result of the Holy Spirit and of love and of the gospel is
actually a place of humility because you very well could be in that spot where
you need to be lifted up and you need a burden carried. And so I love that it
includes that in there because the Judy ISR or the Pharisees would look down on
people and they would call out sins and they would call out issues, but they did
so from a place of judgment. And Paul's coming from a place of joy. Let's
continue reading verse four, let each one test his own work and then his reason
to boast will be in himself alone and not in his neighbor. And then verse five,
it says for each will have to bear his own load. Now, this word load is
different from burden because burden is this heavy is that one cannot carry
themselves. But a load is a lighter weight. Think of a backpack that you have to
carry. I love that everyone has to carry their own backpack, right? You have to
take responsibility because the flip side of those verses of saying we need to
care for one another are the people that might come across as lazy or apathetic
or enabling, right? You need to help me like help. I can't get up, you know, I
fall in and I can't get up like the Urkel quote there like no, you, you do need
to take some responsibility. Like there are people in this world who like
everything seems like a spiritual attack. Have you, have you known those people
like, oh, Satan's just after me, like really, I think you just made a bad
decision. You know, like how if God could just provide well, do you have a job?
No. Have you applied? Have you even looked to apply? Like there is a level of
responsibility there? Um I was a youth pastor for 12 years and I heard another
youth pastor say one time to me and speaking to teenage boys and, and I think
not only is it applicable to teenage boys but applicable to all of us? It said
that teenage boys often are like trucks that uh they drive a little bit better
when there's some weight in the back. You know, like there's this idea that we
need to take our responsibility that we don't just need idle time and idle hands
that we need to do what we can with what we have to help others. And so another
way that this breaks it down is that when in order to build grit in our lives,
we can see that growing grit involves three things. Number one, it requires
accountability. When you have accountability, it's somebody that's checking your
heart, checking your spirit. So for me, like my wife and I, we, we share all
passwords and things there and have access to each other and have regular
conversations. Um in terms of organization and ministry, I have an incredible
board of elders and checking in with um on a regular basis at least once a month
and sometimes more. I have five different coaches through vision, Arizona and we
have friends and family close by that as needs come up and conversations happen,
you can approach these things. And so the question is, do you have somebody in
your life that can speak into your life and that you can speak into their life
that you can support one another? Not from a judgmental standpoint, but from a
carry burden support and say, hey, you need to take some responsibility here,
hey, you need to take a step forward here. And so it takes those things. So it
takes a accountability. But second, we see that requires stability, requires
stability. It helps when you have people to hold you up, when you're feeling
weak, it helps when you have people around you that can make a difference. I
shared, I'm not exactly on my, a game this week and I'm so grateful to our team,
um, that take care of literally everything else here today and everything else
going on that we're in one family that we're one body that we're working
together. And I'm so grateful for that. I'm so grateful that it's bigger than
just one person that together. It's about the savior who loves us that, that we
as a family can love one another and encourage one another that we can lift one
another up when we're struggling through a difficult circumstance. Then the
third, what we see in this passage is that grit requires responsibility, right?
We can't just always sit back and expect everyone else to take care of things.
When God has given you, the brain has given you the body and has given you the
resources to go after things that He's put before you right in the garden. God
created the world God created Adam and Eve. And then what did he do? Actually
gave them a job, right? He gave them a job because he invited them to into a, a
purpose, invited them into stewardship to manage and whatever you find yourself
doing in life, whether it's raising a child, supporting a friend, working a job,
so many different industries you can do so for the glory of God. When you take
responsibility for yourself and your actions in the process. So this is how we
grow in grit. And, and I heard a speaker say recently and it stuck with me that,
that often our world teaches that we should focus on success. But the issue with
success is at the end of the day, usually, success is focused on self. And so
what I wanna offer you in response to that is don't pursue success, instead
pursue significance. See, the only way you pursue significance is when you look
to serve and meet the needs of others because you can be personally successful
and relationally broken. But if you experience significance of the gospel and
you look to meet the needs, it gives you the strength to persevere and to and
continue on and to fight another day because it's not just your needs, it's
others needs and we can lift each other up that we're not just pursuing success.
We're pursuing significance. Now let's continue reading and see where Paul now
transitions to talking about. Goodness verse six says, let the one who is taught
the word, share all good things with the one who teaches. There's a
relationship. There, there is those receiving the word, those hearing the word
responding with a spirit of generosity. And he continues on verse seven, do not
be deceived. God is not mocked for whatever one sows that he will also reap
verse eight for the one who sows to his own flesh will from the flesh, reap
corruption. But the one who sows to the spirit will from the spirit reap eternal
life. So let us not grow weary of doing good for in due season, we will reap if
we do not give up. And I'm gonna reread this verse in a second. And the reason
is because Billy Graham at the end of his life, and he was asked if you could
preach one more sermon if you don't know who Billy Graham is one of the most
well known famous um evangelists pastors speakers in the, in the last 100 years
and really in the history of the church, if you're talking about total reach,
and when he was asked at the end of his life, if you could preach one more
sermon, what would you preach? He said I would preach on Galatians 69. And so I
don't know about you. But if Billy Graham said, if I had one more verse to
preach, it would be this one, I would highlight and mark that down because he
says it's, it's easy for us to give up, right? It's easy for us to struggle
because we live in a broken world. But he, he doesn't say that in due season,
maybe we'll reap it's possible that we could reap says no, the principle of
sowing and reaping, planting and harvest is that you will reap if we do not give
up. And so whatever you're sowing right now, I understand that continue on in
persistence continue on in grit and in goodness and God will see you through. It
says in verse 10. So then as we have opportunity, let us do good to everyone and
especially those who are the household of faith, how you treat others is a
reflection of how you view God. I'm gonna say that again for emphasis. And also
because my voice is pretty raspy. So you might have missed it. How you treat
others is a direct reflection, is a direct reflection of how you view God. Jesus
tells a parable of a story about a man who is in debt equivalent of millions of
dollars and, and the owner decides to forgive that debt and that man is set free
while that man owed millions of dollars a debt that he could never pay. And that
had been forgiven when he goes out, he sees a neighbor who owes him just a
little bit and he threatens him and starts belittling him and attacking the
person. And then the question is, well, how can you refuse to forgive when
you've been forgiven much? And so our understanding of the grace and the gospel
should directly impact how we treat and love and serve one another. You know,
last month we had the powerball that went up to $2 billion. And I thought to
myself, I really hope that person who wins, it goes to Mission Grove. If so, I
want to tell you about the crazy love project. And now Desert Ridge will own our
mission Grove owns all of Desert Ridge. It's great. But two, I thought, ok, if
you had just won the powerball, would you still like, pursue little coupons and
discounts? Like any discount people, like uh any clearance people in the house?
Like I'm a clearance person. Like I love clearance. I love me a deal. You know,
like if I can save 50 cents, I will do it. You know, like I'll go, I'll buy one,
get one. I love me some bogo, especially when it's food related and like, you
know, we're pursuing things and I want that coupon or I get this percentage off
or I sign up for that newsletter to get a discount at the purchase and then if I
can get a coupon and an online discount and a clearance item, oh, it's a good
day. And uh now if you just won $2 billion do you like? Are you at a point in
your life where you need to continue doing that? You know, like that seems weird
at that point, doesn't it? Like? But this is what happens to us as Christians,
Jesus has given us eternity. E eternal lottery here, eternal forgiveness and
freedom and joy and purpose. And yet we go out and we try to take little things
from people and we're searching off the clearance rack and we're like, oh, if I
could just have this, he's like, really, I've given you everything and so your
understanding of the Gospel and who God is impacts our relationships. And that's
why when, when you're fighting something in a relationship or in a workplace,
the best place to go is not directly at that person. But actually first to God,
because when you can see that person, as God sees that person, when you can see
your situation, as God sees that situation, it makes all the difference. And
therefore Christians should be the most loving people in the world. And in that
verse, you notice too, he says especially to those in the household of faith.
You know, if, if you think about growing up with siblings and siblings, you love
them and you protect them, but you push each other's buttons, right? You nit
pick you fight parents. I guarantee every one of you have been in the car and
threatened to pull the car over because one sibling or one kid is, he's touching
me. He's looking at me. He grabbed the toy I wanted and like there's this
bickering back and forth. I wonder sometimes if that's how the world looks at
the church is that we, we disagree with someone and then we go to social, oh,
this is the right thing to do. Boom. And we slam other believers or it's almost
like we, we celebrate when someone falls like it breaks my heart when a pastor
falls morally and, and, and then when we see people, see I knew it and it's like
who wins in that situation. You know, like when there is a difference and there
is a potential heresy within doctrine. Like I'm not saying, don't pursue truth,
like always pursue truth, but don't forget that the world is watching and how we
treat each other matters. In fact, Jesus to his disciples said, how you love one
another will show the world that you are different. So let us be people who
understanding the grace and gospel of Jesus Christ can go and do good. Not
because we want something in return, but because we've already received
everything through Christ. And so growing in goodness, we can do so in three
ways for those taking notes. Number one, we're challenged to sow or to plant
your treasure. The idea of being generous. I saw a reason statistic that the
local church out gives every other program and industry in the world,
governments, charities, different things. The local church actually gives more
to the needs of others than any other organization in the world. And I think
that is a reflection of the fact that you cannot out give God. And that when we
believe in a generous God, it allows us to in turn, be generous. And that
because we are created in God's image that when you give, you're actually giving
in the spirit of God and you get to experience and you are being God and you're
being generous to others, but not only can we sow our treasure. Second, we can
also sow our talent and our gifts and our abilities. The question is, what are
you sowing right now in your parenting? What are you sowing in your workplace?
What are you sowing in your mental health? What are you sowing physically? What
are you sowing in your relationships? And I'm not immune to this, that all of us
have to have regular check ins with. The ones we love to say, how are we doing?
Are we sowing? What we are hoping to reap or we planting something different?
Hoping that the seeds change once they're in the ground, right? What are you
passionate about? What are you skilled at? Because God can use all things to
bring glory to him and to meet the needs of others. And then thirdly, what we
see is that you can sew of your time. Another way to spell love is time. Are you
giving of your time? You know, so grateful for the people within this church.
For those that are setting up those that are serving in nursery, those are
running the tech, those who are here at six in the morning, those who travel
across the world and already meeting the needs of a family. But then on the
weekends choosing time to make a difference, you know, we have such incredible
people here at the church, you know, uh I'll, I'll pick on our slash encourage
big Sean in the back. Uh, if you've never met Sean, if Sean and I are standing
together, we look like the before and after of a workout program. Uh, me being
the before. And, uh, and so, you know, Sean, anytime you see someone who's got
the muscles and the good looks, you never say this out loud. But internally you
think yourself. Yeah. But I bet they got some issues, right? If you've never
seen a good looking person and thought that to yourself, you are lying, right.
We do that right. But then Sean, someone told me like, oh, what is Sean doing
this weekend? I heard that is, you know, this weekend or coming up that you're
delivering Christmas trees to burn victims. Like man, I'll pray for you, Sean
that you work on your character. No, but in all seriousness, I love it. I love
that we have people that do that. I love that. All the Christmas tags are being
taken to provide a Christmas for hope kids, family. I love for those that are
going the extra mile to buy the Chris groceries for a neighbor or giving someone
a ride to the airport or just writing a note of encouragement to a friend.
Understand this church that we are so blessed to be here. I'm so honored and
grateful for those that give and if you are not giving of your time, if you're
not giving of your treasures and your talent. I'm here to tell you you're
missing out, you're missing out because you don't need, it's not, it's not like
God needs something from you. He spoke the world into existence. He's fine. But
when He invites you into this, he's inviting you to be like himself. He's
inviting you into a greater purpose and a greater joy and a greater
significance. So that when you sow of your treasure and of your talent, of your
time, when you pursue the goodness for your community, for the sake of goodness,
when you establish grit in your life through accountability, through stability
and support and through taking responsibility for what you can. I'm here to tell
you that the world takes notice. We don't have time to go through the end of the
letter, but Paul makes it personal and, and he writes about that the only thing
that counts is being a new creation in him and that when you pray and you follow
Christ, that peace and mercy will follow you. And he ends the letter in verse
18. He says, may the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with you and your spirit
brothers. Amen. That's my prayer for you today. I wanna end with AAA cute little
story. I actually just heard it this morning. It was fitting. I just was online
and saw it this morning. So I share with you an online friend of mine. Uh a
believer serves in a church. He uh, he posted that his kiddos were home, they
were home. So they had to watch church online. Not our church. They're a
different part of the country. And so they had church online in the living room
and in the middle of the service, his little boy looked up at him and says, dad,
can I have Jesus? I mean, as a pastor, right? Like you can't get better than
that. right? And so he's and so this leader started think, oh my goodness. This
is incredible. Was it the sermon? Was it the song? Was it the spirit distur in
my son's heart? And he goes into this explanation about how Jesus is incredible
and how Jesus is the reason for the season and the beginning of Christmas. And
as he's in the middle of just this joyful preaching moment, his son looks up at
him and says, no, dad can I have cheez its and he holds up the ball and he looks
down and realizes, oh, my son was just snacking. Look, I love me some cheez. Its
OK. But if I can offer you one thing this morning, may you walk out with the
hope and the message of Jesus Christ? That's the thing that changes you. That's
the thing that changes everything. That's why we gather, that's why we serve.
That's why we give and when we do that as Christians and we come together as a
community, we can grow in our grit and in our goodness and you can break through
the 20th mile and finish well and finish strong. Will you pray with me, dear
heavenly Father? We ask that your spirit will move. We ask that you would come
and speak to our hearts today. God help us to pursue grit and goodness in our
community, to serve one another. We love you God and it's in your son's name. We
pray Amen.